Dear dating but lonely

Let's be honest, romance is a crucial element of a relationship. And if we are really, really honest so is communication. He is withholding both of these from you. You can't be expected to continue in a relationship that is only half there. Don't you feel like you deserve more? I know it may feel like it is easier to put up with the problems in a current relationship than to try and find someone else. If you look at your relationship closely, you'll probably see that the only thing he is offering you is friendship anyway. I imagine you long for those long nights of cuddling in front of a fire, passionate kisses or embraces. If he hasn't found a way to be intimate with you beyond the simple kiss and hand holding within 6 months, you can probably be assured this will not be the end of your problems in this arena. I guess what you really need to be asking yourself is if this is what your idea of a relationship should be? Are you willing to settle for a relationship devoid of romance?